1st Timothy 3:2 A bishop must be blameless, apt to teach; 3 Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; not covetous; 4 One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;
[Patriarchs & Prophets pp 579] Because of Eli's position, his influence was more extended than if he had been an ordinary man. His family life was imitated throughout Israel. The baleful results of his negligent, ease-loving ways were seen in thousands of homes that were molded by his example. If children are indulged in evil practices, while the parents make a profession of religion, the truth of God is brought into reproach. The best test of the Christianity of a home is the type of character begotten by its influence.
Actions speak louder than the most positive profession of godliness. If professors of religion, instead of putting forth earnest, persistent, and painstaking effort to bring up a well-ordered household as a witness to the benefits of faith in God, are lax in their government and indulgent to the evil desires of their children, they are doing as did Eli, and are bringing disgrace on the cause of Christ and ruin upon themselves and their households.
But great as are the evils of parental unfaithfulness under any circumstances, they are tenfold greater when they exist in the families of those appointed as teachers of the people. When these fail to control their own households, they are, by their wrong example, misleading many. Their guilt is as much greater than that of others as their position is more responsible.
1st Timothy 3:5 For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God? 7 Moreover he must have a good report of them which are without; lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.
May God add His blessing to the study of His word. “Good night” and God bless!