Revenge: The action of inflicting hurt, or harm on someone for an injury or wrong suffered at their hands. Synonyms include vengeance, retribution, retaliation, reprisal, requital, recrimination, an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.
It is never good to seek for revenge or to rejoice in retribution when our enemies may fall. The godly sentiment, after one’s adversaries take a hit should be sadness, and seeking restoration wherever it is possible. But for us to gloat over the failures of our adversaries, sends the wrong message, and it’s not akin to the Spirit of Christ. Hence the reason why the following passages should be memorized, and practiced, in co-operation with The Spirit of God. Let’s read:
Proverbs 24:17 Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth:
18 Lest the Lord see it, and it displease him, and he turn away his wrath from him.
Romans 12:17 Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.
20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst give him drink.
21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Being a Christian does not in any way minimize our sense of justice, in fact, the understanding, and the practice of God’s laws and principles makes justice more acute, and well-balanced. But mercy is most often to be preferred, especially when dealing with any personal wrongs that may have been done to us because a disposition of being quick to forgive, and forget, the attitude of joy, and eagerness for reconciliation is well pleasing in God’s sight.
However, we must not believe that as Christians we would not experience feelings of revenge, for this is what natural human nature clamors for, whenever injustices or wrongs are done to us personally. If we experience these sentiments occasionally, that does not mean we are not Christians, but we are to resist these feelings, by asking God to remove them, and instead implant His grace, and His own Spirit in our hearts.
But those who erroneously conclude that they are invulnerable to these sentiments, in an unguarded moment, will blow a fuse. All of the 12 disciples had serious flaws in their character, for even John, who is described as the one closest to Jesus was found to be indulging revenge on different occasions. Christ therefore encouraged him not to travel down that road, for it eventually drives a person insane, as it did with king Saul.
Another point we must take into consideration is that satan launches multiple assaults on the same point, to wear our patience thin, if we seek to justify ourselves in a wrong course of action. The same is true for the sin of revenge, whenever it is indulged. Some Christians have been willing to forgive “Most” times, but there are some occasions when we may feel that the envelope has been pushed a little too far in a particular situation.
Thus, satan sits on our shoulders, waiting to point out several logical reasons why, in such and such a case, vengeance is warranted. However, no amount of pressure, or justification on our part will warrant a departure from the principle of pursuing peace on a personal level, for we are instructed in the most solemn manner, not to pursue revenge. Let’s read:
Romans 12:19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
Proverbs 24:29 Say not, I will do so to him as he hath done to me: I will render to the man according to his work.
David had his own personal battles to fight with the sin of revenge, for he went from partial indulgence, to resolute resistance, to full-blown reprisal when Nabal got under his skin. He was tempted over, and over again on the same point until he admitted that he had a problem, and turned decisively away from that course of action, by the grace of God. But it is not an easy victory to gain, for it goes against our natural grain.
David was being hunted like a wild animal by Saul, who was bent taking his life, and to all appearances it seemed as if The Lord had provided the perfect opportunity for him to take revenge. Even his most trusted soldiers, when evaluating the situations had concluded that The Lord was encouraging David to retaliate, but God was only proving him. There are times when logic points in one direction, but the will of God is in the opposite direction. As Christians we must know the difference. Let’s read:
1st Samuel 24:2 Then Saul took three thousand chosen men out of all Israel and went to seek David and his men upon the rocks of the wild goats.
3 And he came to the sheepcotes by the way, where was a cave; and Saul went in to cover his feet: and David and his men remained in the sides of the cave.
4 And the men of David said unto him, Behold the day of which the Lord said unto thee, Behold, I will deliver thine enemy into thine hand, that thou mayest do to him as it shall seem good unto thee. Then David arose, and cut off the skirt of Saul's robe privily.
5 And it came to pass afterward, that David's heart smote him, because he had cut off Saul's skirt.
6 And he said unto his men, The Lord forbid that I should do this thing unto my master, the Lord's anointed, to stretch forth mine hand against him, seeing he is the anointed of the Lord.
7 So David stayed his servants with these words, and suffered them not to rise against Saul. But Saul rose up out of the cave, and went on his way.
8 David also arose afterward, and went out of the cave, and cried after Saul, saying, My lord the king. And when Saul looked behind him, David stooped with his face to the earth, and bowed himself.
9 And David said to Saul, Wherefore hearest thou men's words, saying, Behold, David seeketh thy hurt?
10 Behold, this day thine eyes have seen how that the Lord had delivered thee to day into mine hand in the cave: and some bade me kill thee: but mine eye spared thee; and I said, I will not put forth mine hand against my lord; for he is the Lord's anointed.
12 The Lord judge between me and thee, and the Lord avenge me of thee: but mine hand shall not be upon thee.
13 As saith the proverb of the ancients, Wickedness proceedeth from the wicked: but mine hand shall not be upon thee.
15 The Lord therefore be judge, and judge between me and thee, and see, and plead my cause, and deliver me out of thine hand.
In this previous episode, David partially indulged in revenge, with the backing of his soldiers, but God reproved him for even cutting off Saul’s skirt. There are times when we too may have almost sinned on this point, but it is never advisable or safe to indulge temptation in the slightest degree, for revenge can become a slippery slope very quickly. Thus, another opportunity must be given for David to take a decisive stand against this evil. Let’s read:
1st Samuel 26:3 And Saul pitched in the hill of Hachilah, which is before Jeshimon, by the way. But David abode in the wilderness, and he saw that Saul came after him into the wilderness.
7 So David and Abishai came to the people by night: and, behold, Saul lay sleeping within the trench, and his spear stuck in the ground at his bolster: but Abner and the people lay round about him.
8 Then said Abishai to David, God hath delivered thine enemy into thine hand this day: now therefore let me smite him, I pray thee, with the spear even to the earth at once, and I will not smite him the second time.
9 And David said to Abishai, Destroy him not: for who can stretch forth his hand against the Lord's anointed, and be guiltless?
10 David said furthermore, As the Lord liveth, the
Lord shall smite him; or his day shall come to die; or he shall descend into battle, and perish.
11 The Lord forbid that I should stretch forth mine hand against the Lord's anointed: but, I pray thee, take thou now the spear that is at his bolster, and the cruse of water, and let us go.
12 So David took the spear and the cruse of water from Saul's bolster; and they gat them away, and no man saw it, nor knew it, neither awaked: for they were all asleep; because a deep sleep from the Lord was fallen upon them.
This second time around David was quite decisive in refusing to indulge even the thought, for he spoke against Abishai’s suggestion in definitive terms. It is worthy of note that in both instances, satan spoke through David’s most loyal friends, as he often does when trying to tempt us to depart from the straight and narrow path.
At such times even the providences of God may be misinterpreted by those who may have the best of intentions. Therefore, it’s important that the advice we accept must have God’s Spirit in it. This means that unless God has specifically instructed us to the contrary, His revealed will is to be followed to the letter, even if evidence to our senses may seem to indicate otherwise. There are critically important lessons to be learned in obedience.
When the jailhouse in which Paul and Silas were locked up was shaken by an earthquake, and the chains fell off their hands and feet, it was not God’s will that they should escape, because God had not specifically told them to do so, even though it may have seemed as if His providence was suggesting otherwise. They were to remain incarcerated until God gave them specific instructions in the matter.
But, even though David was victorious in the second episode, he had not gotten the complete victory for there were still some spots, some wrinkles, some leftovers of revenge in him. And if God left these untouched, they would grow under the cover of darkness, and ripen into active retaliation at some later time.
Therefore, God had to expose David’s core on the issue, guiding him to permanently relinquish any disposition to indulge revenge, no matter what the reason, for the Christian character must remain as pure gold, even when circumstances and situations may change. It is not God’s will that we be the sport of circumstances, because when Christ is dwelling in the heart by faith continually no dart that satan may hurl at us should stick. Let’s read:
1st Samuel 25:4 And David heard in the wilderness that Nabal did shear his sheep.
5 And David sent out ten young men, and David said unto the young men, Get you up to Carmel, and go to Nabal, and greet him in my name:
6 And thus shall ye say to him that liveth in prosperity, Peace be both to thee, and peace be to thine house, and peace be unto all that thou hast.
7 And now I have heard that thou hast shearers: now thy shepherds which were with us, we hurt them not, neither was there ought missing unto them, all the while they were in Carmel.
8 Ask thy young men, and they will shew thee. Wherefore let the young men find favor in thine eyes: for we come in a good day: give, I pray thee, whatsoever cometh to thine hand unto thy servants, and to thy son David.
9 And when David's young men came, they spake to Nabal according to all those words in the name of David, and ceased.
10 And Nabal answered David's servants, and said, Who is David? and who is the son of Jesse? there be many servants now a days that break away every man from his master.
11 Shall I then take my bread, and my water, and my flesh that I have killed for my shearers, and give it unto men, whom I know not whence they be?
12 So David's young men turned their way, and went again, and came and told him all those sayings.
13 And David said unto his men, Gird ye on every man his sword. And they girded on every man his sword; and David also girded on his sword: and there went up after David about four hundred men; and two hundred abode by the stuff.
21 Now David had said, Surely in vain have I kept all that this fellow hath in the wilderness, so that nothing was missed of all that pertained unto him: and he hath requited me evil for good.
22 So and more also do God unto the enemies of David, if I leave of all that pertain to him by the morning light any that pisseth against the wall.
1st Samuel 25:14 But one of the young men told Abigail, Nabal's wife, saying, Behold, David sent messengers out of the wilderness to salute our
master; and he railed on them.
17 Now therefore know and consider what thou wilt do; for evil is determined against our master, and against all his household: for he is such a son of Belial, that a man cannot speak to him.
18 Then Abigail made haste, and took two hundred loaves, and two bottles of wine, and five sheep ready dressed, and five measures of parched corn, and an hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred cakes of figs, and laid them on asses.
23 And when Abigail saw David, she hasted, and lighted off the ass, and fell before David on her face, and bowed herself to the ground,
24 And fell at his feet, and said, Upon me, my lord, upon me let this iniquity be: and let thine handmaid, I pray thee, speak in thine audience, and hear the words of thine handmaid.
26 Now therefore, my lord, as the Lord liveth, and as thy soul liveth, seeing the Lord hath withholden thee from coming to shed blood, and from avenging thyself with thine own hand, now let thine enemies,
and they that seek evil to my lord, be as Nabal.
30 And it shall come to pass, when the Lord shall have done to my lord according to all the good that he hath spoken concerning thee, and shall have appointed thee ruler over Israel;
31 That this shall be no grief unto thee, nor offence of heart unto my lord, either that thou hast shed blood causeless, or that my lord hath avenged himself: but when the Lord shall have dealt well with my lord, then remember thine handmaid.
32 And David said to Abigail, Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, which sent thee this day to meet me:
33 And blessed be thy advice, and blessed be thou, which hast kept me this day from coming to shed blood, and from avenging myself with mine own hand.
[Patriarchs & Prophets pp 308] “Thou shalt not kill”… All acts of injustice that tend to shorten life; the spirit of hatred and revenge, or the indulgence of any passion that leads to injurious acts toward others, or causes us even to wish them harm (for “whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer”); all these are, to a greater or less degree, violations of the sixth commandment.
Let us then try by the grace of God to resist the urge to indulge revenge, even in the slightest degree, for God desires that we serve Him in spirit and in truth always. We therefore close with a gentle reminder:
1st Peter 3:8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous.
9 Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing.
10 For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile.
God bless!